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Our Lady of the Rosary

Catholic Church, Blackfen

Baptism FAQ

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I arrange a Baptism?

One or both parents should come to see the parish priest, Fr Finigan after 10am Mass Tuesday-Friday or after 6pm Mass on Saturday or Sunday. You do not need to telephone or make an appointment.

How soon should I have my child baptised?

Children should be baptised within the first weeks after birth. You are very welcome to come and arrange a date for the Baptism before the child is born. (The priest will then also be able to give the blessing for an expectant mother and pray for the safe delivery of the child.) It is wrong to put off the Baptism simply in order to have a more elaborate celebration party afterwards. It is better to have the Baptism sooner and make the celebrations more simple. You could then always have a big party for the child's first birthday if you wish.

I am not married. Can my child be baptised?

Yes. A child may be baptised so long as there is a well-founded hope that they will be brought up in the practice of the Catholic faith. If you have any questions about marriage in the Catholic Church, please ask the priest because there are often misunderstandings in this area.

I do not live in the parish. Can I have my child baptised at Our Lady of the Rosary?

Yes, if you regularly come to Mass here. If you are not coming to Mass, you need to decide which will be the Church you are going to start attending. It will usually be more appropriate (and more convenient) for you to start going to Mass at your local parish and to arrange the Baptism there.
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How many Godparents should we have?

The Church's Canon Law states that there should be one or two Godparents. If there are two, they should be a Godfather and a Godmother.
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Who can be Godparents?

Godparents should be Catholics over 16 years of age who themselves regularly come to Mass.
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What about non-Catholics?

Alongside the Catholic Godparent(s), a non-Catholic who is a baptised Christian may stand as a Christian witness, similar to a Godparent. The important thing to remember is that Godparents must be able to affirm the Creed. In other words, they state solemnly that they believe in God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, they believe that Jesus rose from the dead and they believe in the Catholic Church.
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Neither I nor my spouse is Catholic. Can our child(ren) be baptised Catholics?

Only if one of the parents decides to become a Catholic themselves. This is a process which involves prayer, instruction and sharing in the life of the Catholic community over several months at least. (See also Catholic Q and A.) The most appropriate conclusion to this process is for the family to be baptised together. Please ask the priest for further details.
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Are there places in the Catholic school?

Catholic schools are often over-subscribed. Baptism alone will not be any guarantee of a place. First priority is always given to those who come regularly to Mass.
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I had a child baptised but I never got a Baptism certificate. How can I get one?

Every parish keeps a Baptism register in its permanent archive. A certificate can always be provided for you by the parish where your child was Baptised. The easiest way to get one is to send a note to the Parish Priest. Give the child's full name, date of birth and date of baptism and enclose a stamped addressed envelope.
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