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A summary of the Cathoilc Church's teaching on marriage
Usually, as long as neither of you has been married before, there is no problem. You will need to have permission or a dispensation (see below). Your priest will obtain the necessary permission or dispensation for you.
You will also be asked to sign a form to say that you will avoid any danger of falling away from your faith and that you will do what you can to ensure that the children of your marriage are baptised and brought up in the Catholic faith. Your fiance(e) does not need to sign this but they must be made aware of it.
These are some of the common dispensations that are applied for. In every case, talk to your parish priest who will find out which you may need and apply for them.
It should be said that if you wish to marry someone who is a devout adherent of another faith, there could be some difficulties. In such a case, you need to discuss carefully whether you can live together with the freedom to practise your Catholic faith.
You should always see your local priest before you make any firm plans for a wedding in the Catholic Church.
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